By : Men Jung
In most of my seminars, I always say the following to the audience "Your Winning Formula is Your Self-Transformation." No success is ever defined without self-transformation. You have to alter the way you do things. You cannot live by yesterday's standard. People often say that if you do the same thing the same way you do it before, you will get the same result. But if you want to get different result, you have to do it differently. The bottom line is you need to transform.
If you look up in the dictionary, the word 'transform' means to make someone or something completely different, usually in a way that makes them more attractive or easier to use. Therefore, transforming yourself is closely related to putting a lot more added values to yourself, and changing yourself for better reasons. There are notably few steps you have to go through to transform yourself. But first thing first, transformation starts from your mind. Your mind is the engine for your actions. Remember this! What the mind dwells upon, the body acts upon. You've got to make sure you have the right mindset.
Quite an analogy to self-transformation, you can observe the metamorphosis of a butterfly. However, before you can see a beautiful butterfly flying around, you will need to understand the process it has to go through from egg to larva, to pupa to a developed butterfly with vibrant colors soaring all over. Likewise, your self-transformation will sometimes come across pains you need to endure and challenges to deal with. Transformation is quite identical with change. Consequently, for a change to take place, it requires a considerable amount of energy and time in making its ways. Most of the time, you will even have to leave your comfort zone, which means to say that you have to leave unproductive conventional ways of thinking and doing things.
Transformation can only take place if you really want it. You have to consciously want it. Understanding your present state and what you expect to be are key issues you need to address at an earlier stage. You have to be crystal-clear of what you want and act accordingly. After which, there come another important element. It is commitment. You should not give up on your efforts. Upon realizing that transformation is never easy, you should bear in mind that changes will only prevail if you persist. More and more challenges are coming your ways. Do not worry much about them. They are in fact making you stronger and taking you higher to the destination of your journey. There's a saying "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger."
If, by any chance, you arrive at this article this moment, I believe you miss to see great things happen in your life. Well, the good news is whoever you are, and whatever you do, you can make them happen. You can even witness your own self-transformation in a way you've never thought possible before. It starts with a decision. You've got to make your decision now. If you think you don't live up the life to your fullest potential, now make a decision to do so. If you have messed up many things before, now you can change for the future. If you still don't know how to do it yourself, get someone you can trust who demonstrates the characteristics of a person living a great life. Ask him/her to assist you throughout your transformation process. Keep this in mind. You will definitely succeed with your transformation because you really want it to happen. I wish you all the best with it.
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